Threesomes

Hi Divas,
I hope everyone's doing well so far this week.

As a freelance writer and a woman, who's striving to understand relationships better, I hope you'll be okay with me asking your opinions at times. I'm enjoying the Diva Cafe and am glad that so many women can bond in this cyber format. Thanks Dede!!!

I wrote an article yesterday on the subject of "threesomes" for couples. Someone commented, because he or she was offended by what I said. Help me out here, Divas...

Question: How do you feel about "threesomes?" Would you feel comfortable sharing your man with another woman? Thank you in advance for chiming in.

Try this: http://www.examiner.com/x-2930-Denver-Womens-Relationship-Examiner~...

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Permalink Reply by Dede on January 30, 2010 at 12:24pm: It was a great article.. thanks:) Have to run. Going to work today:(; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Karen Kennedy on January 30, 2010 at 3:11pm: Thank you so much Dede. Work??? Well, thank God you have work to go to, in this ravaged economy! Take care woman. Talk to you soon.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Dede on February 1, 2010 at 2:00am: I am very fortunate Karen to have a good job. I think about this every single day!

Karen Kennedy said:
Thank you so much Dede. Work??? Well, thank God you have work to go to, in this ravaged economy! Take care woman. Talk to you soon.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Adriana Sahagun Martinez on February 9, 2010 at 11:33am: I feel that threesome are just fantasies that we may think of ,but never really act on them. I can't say I've never thought about it, but I have never tried it! I As for sharing my Husband I don't think I could , but I also feel, if he really feels strong about trying it .. Then It's time for a heart to heart talk.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Karen Kennedy on February 9, 2010 at 11:39am: Hi Adrianna,
Thank you for your reply to my post. For most monogamous couples it is a fantasy. My advice is that if it's something one hasn't done in a drunken stooper during college, forget it! Things get way too complicated and if precautions aren't taken, it could wreck lives. Stop by anytime, Diva!

Adriana Sahagun Martinez said:
I feel that threesome are just fantasies that we may think of ,but never really act on them. I can't say I've never thought about it, but I have never tried it! I As for sharing my Husband I don't think I could , but I also feel, if he really feels strong about trying it .. Then It's time for a heart to heart talk.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Jennifer Uhart on February 23, 2010 at 12:33am: Technically, the vows do say to forsake all others. I guess if you're not married, you're not breaking a vow.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Karen Kennedy on February 23, 2010 at 12:55am: Hi Jennifer,
Thank you for the reply to my post. I'm all for commitment, and I believe that couples should love and respect each other. Even for those who are not legally married, but choose to peacefully co-exist, there is still trust that must be established and maintained. I posed this question about "threesomes" because of perplexing personal experiences. Suffice it to say, I don't believe that a monogamous couple should bring other people into their intimate lives. Take care.

KJ.

Jennifer Uhart said:
Technically, the vows do say to forsake all others. I guess if you're not married, you're not breaking a vow.; ▶ Reply to This