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Permalink Reply by Shannon on May 31, 2011 at 11:09am

Hey Ms. Kass and sorry for the late reply. Here goes my story please brace yourself lol. Well I finally just broke a year and half on and off relationship with my ex. The fights in the relationship indeed hurt me, but moreso this time around i dont feel hurt as much.. feel more relieved than anything. Just recently, I was extending to him to receive my funds, he held for me during the time we were in a relationship. He politely met up with me to return them. However, mins later i received a text message from him stating he don't want us to be friends, and he dont' want to hear from me ever again, i shouldn't call or text him. Reading the text hurt me much, after all we been thru despite the up's and down's and we both concluded on being friends.. So i respected his wishes...Three days later. he contacted me asking to go to a movie..Somehow I fell into the offer and went along with him. Ms. Kass...Afterall said and done. I dont want to relive this cycle again, and i want to move on.. As a christian.. I thought the right thing to do was forgive and move on. But he does this all the time, fuss me, then turn around and want to come back.. What is your advice...? I think i know the best thing to do. But I need the strength.

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