New members soon might have to go through a review

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Permalink Reply by Ty on February 8, 2010 at 10:30am

IMO the best way to bring credibility to Diva Cafe, is to approve pending memberships. There are countless ning sites labeled as "business networking" or "women networking" that disappoint with spammers and those who have unwanted agendas.

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Permalink Reply by Dede on February 8, 2010 at 10:48am

Hi Ty, the problem is that I am away all day normally and cannot approve. People like instant gratification and I hate to make them wait. I agree that I will soon have to do this. I just hated to restrict our site. Perhaps, I can withdraw from all my other Ning memberships to also cut back on it.

I work so hard to keep our site's standards as high as possible and the situation that I encountered today was very upsetting.

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Permalink Reply by Lisa Zacharie on February 8, 2010 at 12:05pm

WE NEED A NO MEN ZONE :)

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Permalink Reply by Dede on February 8, 2010 at 10:58pm

Very Funny:)
Lisa Zacharie said:

WE NEED A NO MEN ZONE :)

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Permalink Reply by Maureen on February 9, 2010 at 10:22am

I am sure it was an isolated case. Also, you might have a rule where you have to approve all photos.

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Permalink Reply by Ty on February 9, 2010 at 7:10pm

It took a week for my membership to be approved in Martha Stewart's ning blog. I thought they forgot about me! But I understand.

Dede said:

Hi Ty, the problem is that I am away all day normally and cannot approve. People like instant gratification and I hate to make them wait. I agree that I will soon have to do this. I just hated to restrict our site. Perhaps, I can withdraw from all my other Ning memberships to also cut back on it.

I work so hard to keep our site's standards as high as possible and the situation that I encountered today was very upsetting.

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Permalink Reply by Ty on February 9, 2010 at 7:28pm

I think a 24-hr waiting period is reasonable. Anyone who is seriously looking to network will (or should) understand. Many credible ning sites offer waiting periods.


Dede said:

Hi Ty, the problem is that I am away all day normally and cannot approve. People like instant gratification and I hate to make them wait. I agree that I will soon have to do this. I just hated to restrict our site. Perhaps, I can withdraw from all my other Ning memberships to also cut back on it.

I work so hard to keep our site's standards as high as possible and the situation that I encountered today was very upsetting.

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Permalink Reply by Dede on February 10, 2010 at 1:30am

Hi Ty! It is coming very soon. I am so sorry that people abuse a site and that we have to have these restrictions in place!
Ty said:

I think a 24-hr waiting period is reasonable. Anyone who is seriously looking to network will (or should) understand. Many credible ning sites offer waiting periods.


Dede said:

Hi Ty, the problem is that I am away all day normally and cannot approve. People like instant gratification and I hate to make them wait. I agree that I will soon have to do this. I just hated to restrict our site. Perhaps, I can withdraw from all my other Ning memberships to also cut back on it.

I work so hard to keep our site's standards as high as possible and the situation that I encountered today was very upsetting.

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Permalink Reply by Dede on February 10, 2010 at 1:30am

I had a prescription med spammer a few minutes ago:(
Maureen said:

I am sure it was an isolated case. Also, you might have a rule where you have to approve all photos.

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