Does your Guy Allow you the Freedom to be Yourself??

I think that it is very important to have the ability to spend time with friends and explore life a bit without sharing every free moment with your guy. We need that "me" time perhaps more than even men do.

Does your Guy understand that you need time without him and give you the time you need to spend with friends and activities that don't always revolve around him?

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Permalink Reply by Dede on March 2, 2011 at 12:12am

That is wonderful Nicole and it sounds like most of our Divas have found a great guy who appreciates them for who they are!!

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Permalink Reply by Doll on March 6, 2011 at 6:28pm

Hello Diva's,

We both give each other freedom and this works best! He gave me the key to his appartment after being in a relationship with me for seven months and I don't use the key to come and go as I please, I respect his privacy. We have a great relationship considerating what some other couples may have. You must let a person be who they are, otherwise they will not be happy and will make a decision if they want to be with you. With having to do with just life's obstacles and challenges, a relationship (or marriage) should be as relaxing as possible with freedom and balance, no one wants to be in an institution. I enjoy my privacy, and privacy doesn't mean that one is cheating when they are not with their mate, it simply means-- I'm an individual and I have a life outside of my committment to you. Also, our man is our second job--so Men please give us the freedom to be ourselves!

--Doll--